I find myself full of anger and frustration, and not really know what to do with it, so, I’m gonna blog. We are here on this Earth to help each other, love each other, at the very least be kind and civil. I know that’s not always the case, I’m not Miss Mary Sunshine, but, I like to hope, to think that most people are decent, and caring inside.
I know this goes on every day, otherwise AIDS and STDS wouldn’t be the problem they are, the epidemic they are, but this struck close to home, someone I have come to consider a friend.
How could a Woman who is a Nurse, have unprotected sex with a kind and special Man, knowing he was looking for a soul mate, for love in his life, all the time knowing that she had Herpes, and not tell him, until later, when it was too late? I guess she is on meds, and told him that she didn’t think she was contagious because she had no symptoms or outbreaks, but she was wrong in thinking that.
I will say, I really have no right to be angry about this, he has said that he’s not, but it really has upset me. What if she had AIDS, and how many people that do have AIDS act just this way? What gave her the right, what gives anyone the right to take someone else’s life in their hands, and to put it in danger? I know Herpes isn’t life threatening, but, there is no cure. I can’t help but think of how many innocent people have AIDS because of situations like this, because of an ignorant, selfish, uncaring person. Please, Please use condoms my friends. If this woman, who’s in the health care field can be so careless, then anyone can, and you can’t trust a person by looks or even by your heart. Please be smart, get tested, use condoms, and I hate to say it, but, don’t be trusting. Know for sure!
I’ve been very lucky that I’ve not had to lose anyone close to me, and I guess I’m bitching about this now because, I DON’T want to. Not now, not ever. Stay safe, you are loved. BIG HUGS, Steph