15 Jan 2006 17 Comments
The other day I went to read a blog by, Vicki, http://spaces.msn.com/members/vlw-art/
The entry titled, I didn’t do it. She asks why Men find long legs sexy.
In her responses is a post from Tarhead, http://spaces.msn.com/members/tarhead/
who then posts a wonderful answer from a Man’s point of view, on what is sexy, in his space.
It got me to thinking because what’s sexy to one person could be totally opposite of another person’s view.
I asked some Male friends about the long legs thing… I was told that they should be long and shapely, but mostly they find them sexy because they can visualize them wrapped around them, and they find that very sexy.
I admit I enjoy a long pair of legs on a Man, not sure if I ever really thought about it, it’s just a visual that’s pleasing to me.
If we are talking physical, then to me what’s sexy is, eyes, smile, and, I really have a thing for arms and great hands.
What’s really important though is more than just physical.
I’ve met some gorgeous Men, and yet, if there’s no "hampster on the wheel upstairs", they could be store mannequins for all I care. It’s intelligence, confidence and a great sense of humor, the way a Man walks and carries himself, and if he looks you in the eye. It’s the man who gives off the ‘vibe’ of, it’s not sex, it’s making love and I’m damned good at it! It’s a Man who finds pleasure in making sure that his Wife of many years is pleased, and still enjoys their love making. Sexy is a Man who’s truely and deeply in Love, and it makes me feel so good to know there are Men out there like that.
Sexy is a Man who may not have a great love in his life, but is content to wait, and has all the confidence in the world that it will happen when the time is right.
Sexy is a Man of honor who does what’s right, not because he has to, but because it’s just right.
Sexy is the nice guy that has the ‘bad boy’ side to him, on the right occasions. lol
Sexy is a lot of things, and different things, but to me, these are a few of what I consider sexy. For me, intelligence and humor are just a double whammy!
Thanks Vicki and Tarhead, for the inspiration and idea of what to write about today. Ok, now, what do YOU find sexy? BIG HUGS, Steph